Thursday, October 30, 2008

"you having a good day?"

I'm online at work all the time. Even if I'm not at my computer, I'm online. I sign in as soon as I get to work and only sign off if I'm trying focus, trying to get more accomplished, and am also choosing to be easily distracted.
Kennedy, my third-grade cousin, is always really excited to talk to me when she's online. Our conversations usually go something like this:

k:
hi lyssa
k: :)
tomorrow is.........HALLOWEEN!!!!!!!!!!!
Lyssa: isn't that exciting?!
what are you going to be for halloween?
k: a devil
x-(
what are you going to be
Lyssa: haha that should be fun!
I'm going to a halloween party tonight
and I'm going to be a china doll
and then tomorrow night, for actual halloween, I'm going to be [something different]
k: WWWWWWOW
Lyssa: I'm pretty excited about it :)
k: ME TO
have you heard from jada yet
Lyssa: heard from Jada yet?
what do you mean?
k: like have she sended a email yet
to you
Lyssa: not today...
why?
did she email you?
or are you waiting for an email from her?
k: well no i just haven't heard from her
in a longgggg time
k: since school started
Lyssa: wow
that's a while

We talk about the nearest event, her school, her fam, which of my siblings have emailed her recently and what the emails have said and what I think of them. And then, at some point in the conversation, she always asks me if I'm having a good day. I love that question. She doesn't ask me how I'm doing. She gives me the chance to evaluate the day, and I answer her honestly. She's definitely caught me on days I haven't been thinking about how great they've been. She asked me one day that it seemed like everything had gone wrong, but she makes me think about it. She always gives me reasons to realize that I've had good things happen to me, even if I don't think the day is going so fantastically. It's really cool, and it makes me feel a lot better to know things just aren't that bad.

From the mouths of babes. Literally.

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